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FAQs on the chat and video chat feature

  • I want to start chatting, how do I join the chat rooms?

    First, we recommend you read the chat rules, which outlines the do's and don'ts of the Gays.com chat. To enter: Click on 'Chat' from the top menu.   Once connected, pick a room from the list on the ri...

  • Is my webcam automatically connected when I enter a room?

    No, you have the option of using your webcam, although you don’t have to! You can just text talk. If you want to use your webcam, you'll need to activate it....

  • Can I join more than one room at the same time?

    Premium or VIP members can join up to three different rooms simultaneously.  Free members can only join one room at a time....

  • Can I create my own video chat rooms?

    Yes, but you'll need a Premium or VIP membership to gain access to this feature. Premium and VIP's can click the button at the top of the user list. After a brief moment, a window will open, showing a...

  • Reporting inappropriate behaviour in the chat

    If you experience inappropriate behaviour or abuse in the chat, you can report the member anonymously by hovering your mouse over their chat message and clicking on the triangle that appears next to i...

  • How does the video chat work?

    All members have access to the video chat feature, however only Premium and VIP's can share their camera and watch others at the same time. Free members can only share their camera, not view others. ...

  • Who can see me when I have my webcam activated?

    Anyone who is in the room; all they need to do is click on the webcam icon next to your name in the member list, and your cam will appear at the top of the screen. You'll also be able to see yourself....

  • How do I know who’s viewing me on webcam?

    Hover over the bottom of your cam screen - the one displaying you! - and you will see a couple of icons. Click the one that says: 'Watchers', and you’ll see who's viewing you....

  • Can I create my own chat rooms?

    Yes, all Premium and VIP's can create chat rooms.  Free users don't have access to this feature. When you create your chat room, you get the option to call it what you like (sticking to our chat rules...

  • How can I start a private conversation?

    There are three options to do this: 1. Double-click on the name in the member's list 2. Right hand click on the member's name and select 'send a private message.' 3. Click on the name in the member's ...