What are the Chat rules?

You’re welcome to chat about whatever you want, however, we ask that you respect others. We don't make you guess about what's considered appropriate or inappropriate on Gays.com, so take a quick look below at the do’s and don’ts below.

Respect others

Don’t be a troll. Differences of opinion are welcomed as long as it’s done in a respectful way.

No spamming or advertising

Big no, no. If you want to advertise, contact our advertising department.

No posting of private contact details

If you want to give out contact details, you can do it in a private message, but not in the public chat rooms. Bear in mind that this is at your own risk and Gays.com is released from any responsibility.

No requesting pic swaps

If you're looking to swap pics, the chat isn't the place to do this. Please create a personal ad or use the browse feature to contact others directly that you like the look of.

No personal ads

If you're looking to make contact with other kinksters for meetups or for any kind of relationship, please use the personal ads instead of the chat.

No harassing other members

C’mon, since when has harassing people been cool?

Only transmit a live-stream from your webcam

Please don’t use another source other than your webcam in the video chat, whether it's public or private. Only live-streams are allowed, no recordings.

No requesting money

Even if you insinuate that you need money, you will be warned once. If you persist, you’ll be permanently banned.

No inflammatory racial, religious or political language

Says what it does on the tin. Inflammatory language will result in an immediate kick and possible ban from Gays.com. This also applies to public chat rooms that you create yourself.

No excessive swearing

We all love the word "fuck" but try to keep your cursing to a minimum.

No ‘flooding’ or unnecessary repetition

Interrupting the flow of the chat sessions with the use of large fonts, capital letters, repetitive typing or other forms of flooding isn’t cool.

GIFs in the chat

Please note, that the following GIFs are not allowed:

• No GIFs of illegal drug use and paraphernalia.
• No police or armed force insignia. (exceptions: role play uniforms with fake badges are permitted).
• No weapons and/or offensive vocabulary.
• No GIFs of violent acts to yourself, someone else, or animals.
• No GIFs including blood or scat.
• No GIFs that incites racism, bigotry, hatred or physical harm of any kind.

Lastly... If you’re asked to stop, by either a moderator or another member, do. Being offensive will never be tolerated and all moderator decisions are final. We love having you around, so allow us to keep you!